When boys and girls fight, girls win. Boys fight for hierarchy. Girls fight for resources. Boys fight for the leadership. Girls fight for their survival. For a boy, the bigger and more abstract the cause, the more hell sacrifice himself. For a girl, the deeper and more personal the cause, the more shell sacrifice everyone other. Boys fight to prove a point. Girls fight to win. Boys fight to reach out-there. Girls fight to put it in-side.

When a weaker boy assumes defeat, he gets detained, disarmed, and then is freed to rejoin the tribe at a lower status. When a weaker girl assumes defeat, she gets knocked down, humiliated, and then is marked for life so she cant rejoin the tribe, or is made a corpse for others to jump on top and to be feed on. Boys fight their rivals. Girls fight their enemies. Defeats for boys mean demotion; for girls, total destruction. Stakes differ sharply.

Boys positional and diverse. Ladders in a chain where every slot is needed, from top to bottom. Push it up, push it down. Rankings and measurement. Organized, mechanical, impersonal violence. Girls life and death. Connections on a net which accumulates resources around the center, and expels the unwanted to the periphery. Pull it in, cut it out. Us vs them. Inclusion and exclusion. Chaotic, organic, targeted violence. Boys organize; girls exclude ruthlessly.

When boys and girls fight, girls win. Mostly because when boys and girls fight, boys still care. Boys chase hierarchy through sacrifice and rivals demoted recover. Girls secure survival personally, enemies excluded forever. Male impersonal pushes meet female chaotic cuts—personal stakes make girls destroy utterly. Boys allow reentry; girls mark for life. In mixed fights, female targeting triumphs over male structure. Girls win decisively.